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Beyond the Basics: Gun Safety, Mental Health, and Integrity in Training

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Season 2, Episode 16

Join us for Episode 16 as we welcome renowned firearms expert and educator Rob Pincus. Dive deep into the principles that drive Rob’s company, ICE Training, and explore how integrity, consistency, and efficiency shape their approach to personal defense training.

Rob shares his extensive background in the gun industry, law enforcement, and military service, offering listeners a unique perspective on the evolution of firearms education. Discover the importance of realistic training scenarios, the balance between efficiency and consistency, and how these principles can be applied to everyday life for enhanced safety and security.

The conversation takes a compelling turn as Rob and Jim discuss the intersection of mental health and firearm safety. Learn about the critical work being done by Walk the Talk America, an initiative aimed at bridging the gap between mental health awareness and responsible gun ownership. Rob addresses the challenges and misconceptions surrounding mental health in the firearms community and emphasizes the importance of open dialogue and proactive measures.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in personal defense, responsible gun ownership, and the ongoing efforts to improve mental health awareness within the firearms community. Tune in for an insightful and thought-provoking discussion that goes beyond the basics of gun safety.

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Music.

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Hello, and welcome to another episode of the Self-Initiative Project Podcast.

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I’m your host, Jim O’Brien. Welcome to episode 16.

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Today, we have my guest Rob Pincus on the line with us. How are you, Rob?

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I’m doing great, Jim. I really appreciate you having me on the podcast.

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We’re doing some great things to open up some people’s minds,

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I think, on some really important topics, and I’m looking forward to participating.

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I appreciate that, and I appreciate you taking time out of your very busy schedule,

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as I’ve learned here as of late to do this with us.

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So before we get started, we’re going to be talking about your company and the

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principles it was found on, ICE training,

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integrity, consistency, and efficiency, as well as the mental illness and how

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that’s come into play and how that has been at play in the firearms community

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and firearm safety and suicide and whatnot, gun negligence.

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But before we get started, we always like to give our guests the opportunity

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to tell us about themselves, their background, their history,

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what they do, what they’re about.

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And, you know, in the gun community, I’m sure you’ve got to be living under

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a rock not to know who you are, but for our audience, let’s pretend like they

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don’t know who Rob is and give them, give them a spiel.

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Yeah, I guess, like you said, if you’re in the gun world, you probably have

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heard my name or seen my face somewhere.

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I’ve been working inside the gun industry, you know, So formally,

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for over 20 years, 1997 is the year I used for that.

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But informally, I was around the industry and the firearms community in different

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ways, you know, going back for a while and including military service for a

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brief time, working in law enforcement, working in executive protection and

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being on the security industry.

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But really, while I was writing for magazines and doing a lot of different promotional

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marketing things inside of the gun community.

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It wasn’t until 2001 that I made the shift to enter full-time into education

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and specifically personal defense education.

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And really the focus for a long time was on defensive shooting skills.

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So I left law enforcement in 2001 to do that.

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And I still hold a reserve deputy badge and serve the county,

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small county out here in Colorado as a training officer and occasionally help

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out with patrol control duties and things like that.

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But really the shift was made in 2001.

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To focus on education and focus on being part of the training community and

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the educational community.

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And it took till about 2003 until training was paying all the bills, so to speak.

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But ever since then, it’s been really exactly what I could have hoped for and

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probably far more than I would ever have expected in terms of the opportunities

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to teach around the world, teach

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some of the most capable military operators on the planet in our U.S.

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Military, both in the Navy side and the Army side and the Air Force side,

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high-end law enforcement guys all over the world, worked for a lot of amazing

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agencies and entities and organizations,

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as well as going all the way to the other end of the spectrum,

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having been able to influence a whole lot of people who haven’t even bought

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their first gun or haven’t even thought about the importance of having a strong

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lock on their door or something like that,

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or the way they live their life in terms of safety and security.

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And I’ve just had a wonderful experience now

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for approaching 20 years doing this full time as an educator and along the way

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I’ve gotten involved with producing television shows and being part of a lot

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of different television projects and writing books and producing DVDs and all

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the streaming and distance education work that I do through Personal Defense

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Network and the USCCA and lots of other places.

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And dealing with things like being on podcasts and being able to educate people

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just conceptually through some of the ideas that are really important and foundational

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to personal defense and self-awareness and just kind of living a good life that

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is safer and more secure because you’re more capable and more prepared.

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All of those things are really important to me. So that’s kind of how I end

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up on the show today, I guess, is getting to do what I want to do and helping

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other people be better prepared to do the things they might need to do. Yeah, and that’s great.

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I think one of the things that, of course, I’ve been following you for a while now myself,

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and I think when we first connected, I think one of the things that wanted me

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to reach out is I noticed when you put out your rights and responsibilities

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shirt that I was like, ah, we’ve got a similarity here with this whole belief in responsibilities.

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And so that was my connection to, to wanting to connect with you initially.

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And speaking of principles, your, your, your company, I see is actually an acronym,

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integrity, consistency, and efficiency.

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And so tell me how that came about and what that means for you and what,

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what messages you have behind that.

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Yeah, I guess, you know, that rights and responsibilities message that you mentioned

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as far as the T-shirt really is an outgrowth, I guess, or an application of the ICE principles,

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integrity, consistency and efficiency, you know, specifically to our Second Amendment rights.

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And the idea that if we want to exercise those rights, we need to do so responsibly.

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And that’s an important message inside of the gun community.

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On a bigger AO, like whatever you want to throw at it, the 150,000 foot kind of view.

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What we do at ICE Training Company, what I’ve tried to do is specifically like

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in all aspects of my life is really we take those three principles, integrity,

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consistency and efficiency, and we reverse them to come to the best conclusion

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for ourselves and for our students if it’s in a specifically educational role.

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So we start with efficiency.

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And efficiency is a modification on effectiveness.

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And it’s a modification that means you’re achieving your goal,

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the idea of effectiveness, that you’ve come up with something that solves a

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problem, but you’re specifically achieving that goal with as little time,

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effort, or energy as possible.

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And while in our everyday lives, that’s obviously self-evidently valuable,

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in an emergency situation, in an acute medical situation, in a self-defense situation.

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That urgency and the efficiency aspect of achieving your goal becomes that much more important. right?

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You don’t have seconds to waste.

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You don’t have extra energy or extra motor skill, you know, focus to waste.

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You don’t have extra awareness to waste on extraneous details.

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So if we can be prepared to not just solve a problem, but in fact,

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to solve a problem as efficiently as possible, with as little time after energy

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investment as possible, we’re significantly more prepared,

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especially in an emergency life-threatening kind of situation. Yeah.

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Under stress, it becomes even more important to be effective and efficient because,

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you know, and that’s a good selling point for doing the training in the first

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place, because without the training, there’s no way you can ever get to that

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point, especially under duress.

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Yeah, we look at a lot of the technical things, the physical skills that we

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teach in the defensive shooting and other aspects of the training.

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And quite often what we have actually done isn’t sat in a room or on a range

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or in a mat room where we’re doing unarmed training and tried to figure out

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the best way possible under those circumstances.

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And that’s that’s one of the big problems, honestly, in the training community,

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in the defensive community is people turn it into a game or they turn it into a sport.

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They look at it like they would look at, you know, pitching a baseball or,

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you know, shooting a basketball into a hoop.

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And when they do that, what they what they do is they end up isolating the mechanics

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or the athleticism of the task,

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as opposed to focusing on the application of the technique they’re trying to

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develop or the skill they’re trying to develop in the more realistic context.

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So a lot of times, you know, thankfully, we don’t need our guns.

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Right. In personal defense and most U.S. law enforcement, we don’t need our guns every day.

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So people get really comfortable training for the range or training for the

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the tech, if you will. Sure.

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So one of the big problems we end up with is this idea that we’ve got a.

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Optimization fetish almost. It’s like, how do I become as good as I can at this

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thing? Because that makes me feel more accomplished.

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Well, the problem is when we optimize ourselves for that environment,

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which isn’t actually the environment we need the skill in, or we presume we

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may someday need the skill in, we’re fooling ourselves.

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And I talk a lot about like driving, right? Because we all have to drive, right?

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We all, you know, I get it. Like there’s a couple of people in Manhattan,

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maybe listening to this podcast that you don’t have to drive,

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but for the rest of it, it’s humorous for a second.

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We all, we all have to drive. So we, we, we, and the way we drive is applied.

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We don’t drive like we’re driving on a racetrack right now. I spend a lot of time on tracks.

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I’ve done a lot of racing. I

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enjoy it as a, as a hobby as well and high performance cars and like that.

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So I’ve spent enough time in that environment while I’m certainly not an expert in that field.

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I understand that there is a vast difference between the way one drives on a

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track to get the best lap time, and even the car you drive, or the way you set

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your car up is so dramatically different than a daily driver kind of thing.

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Go look at Formula One, right? And you look at those cars, they have almost

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no relevance to anyone’s daily driving experience.

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The way they’re driven, the way they’re built, the technology inside of them,

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all those kinds of things, and that’s the ultimate version of racing, right?

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So look at that and we say, for road racing, for cars, if we look at that and we say.

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How are those guys optimizing their lap times? How is Mercedes winning,

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you know, nine out of 10 races?

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Well, they’re doing it by taking every possible advantage and controlling all

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the variables they can in a very predictable environment.

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Well, if I were to approach shooting in the same way, I might get really,

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really good at shooting.

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I’d be really, really effective at controlling all the variables,

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isolating all the metrics and getting exactly the right gun that was best to

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pass the test or to get the highest score on the test or in the game that I was playing.

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And that’s what you do with a car. With NASCAR, they build the cars very differently

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than they do with Formula One because they’re trying to do something different

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in a different way with different limitations in terms of budget and things like that.

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So every different racing setup is going to be a little different.

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Even different tracks, you’re going to set your car up differently,

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taking different corners, you’re going to do it in different ways.

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But because you have memorized the track and because you know,

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you know, six months ahead of time, which track you’re going to be on,

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you can set yourself up for that.

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So that if you take that approach to defensive training,

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you end up with a very choreographed kind of stylized execution of mechanical

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techniques that may or may not apply to the actual road you find yourself driving

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down. We can go back to the driving analogy.

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You’ve kind of painted yourself in a box.

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Yeah. Yeah. So you become, and you become overconfident, right?

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You become really, really good at that one thing.

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So, you know, it’s, it’s, it’s the guy who, who buys the Corvette and you can

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go to the internet and look at like supercar fails or Corvette fails videos like all day long.

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It’s the guy who buys the Corvette. He knows it’ll go zero to 60 in 3.2 seconds.

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He’s sitting Sitting at a red light next to a Dodge Charger or a Ford Mustang,

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everyone involved in this scenario knows the Corvette is faster than the Ford,

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but this guy floors it and he doesn’t realize the road’s a little wet.

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And the back end kicks out from under him and he spins and bounces off the Mustang

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and goes over the curb and hits a telephone pole, which then proceeds to fall

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down and start a fire across the street.

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And it’s like your car was faster, bro. We know.

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But you had no ability to apply that the fact that you had a powerful car that

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you theoretically could hold the steering wheel straight while you accelerated

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in the context of the moment you found yourself in.

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And when we watch people defending themselves with guns or trying to defend

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themselves with guns on video, when we see dash camera videos of police officers shooting,

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we very rarely see the perfect execution of the qualification course type shooting

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that they’ve been practicing and that they were trained to do or they learned to do.

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And we see improvisation. And that improvisation is often pretty efficient. Sure.

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So when we go back to the late 1990s, when we started seeing more and more of

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these dash camera videos,

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more and more videos of people actually in real fights, we started seeing higher

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high level reality based training with simulation simulation rounds and force

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on force training with protective gear in deeply immersive scenarios.

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Scenarios and we would see people responding and even reacting in ways that

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were very, very, very different than what they were supposedly trained to do.

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And it’s those improvisations that we ended up like reverse engineering to try

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to help people be as prepared as possible for the moment because they have a

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baseline set of principled skills where they may not be the fastest shooter

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they could be on the range.

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But they absolutely have a realistic idea of what they’re capable of in the real world.

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And that’s so much more important. And that’s a big, big takeaway from this

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efficiency concept is not just fast, but fast in application in the intended context.

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So it’s a really foundational principle for a whole bunch of reasons.

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But I think people hopefully can see how that is so vital that you’re learning

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how to solve the problem,

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not with the best toolkit in the world, but when your car breaks down on a mountainside

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and you have like a Leatherman and some duct tape,

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can’t you get the job done as opposed to being in the BMW dealership,

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you know, with every tool in the world and it’s, it’s sparkling clean.

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You know, you, you touch on a point indirectly. And I was, as I was listening,

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I was also Googling this quote that I’ve come across a few times doing Krav

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Maga and other things, but it’s, and I guess it’s attributed to some Greek poet

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now they’ve determined, But anyway,

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it says we don’t rise to the level of our expectations.

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We fall to the level of our training.

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So, you know, you’ve got to train to get just good enough to be able to get through it.

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And then hopefully, you know, you’re still not going to do things that you did during your training.

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But hopefully you’ve had enough training where you can improvise and figure

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it out and get through the situation that you may find yourself in.

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Yeah, exactly. And I actually had breakfast this morning with a guy who was

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a former special operations guy, and he’s running a private security company

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for high-end executive protection clients.

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And he’s getting ready to take on some international clients.

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And he knows that some of his guys are going to be a little bit not sure about

00:14:35.001 –> 00:14:38.821
traveling internationally with the responsibility of protecting someone without

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a gun. And we’re not talking about guys going, you know, into Afghanistan.

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We’re talking about guys that are going to want to, you know,

00:14:43.661 –> 00:14:46.601
their wives want to go shopping in London, you know, and so they,

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or they want to try out a new restaurant in Hong Kong. Right.

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And it’s like, if you can’t get people in those environments to understand that

00:14:52.641 –> 00:14:56.281
you got to solve the problems in the ways that are available to you,

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not pretend that you’re always going to have your preferred solution,

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or you’re going to have that problem you predicted.

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Because honestly, at some point, the problem you predicted isn’t a problem anymore.

00:15:05.561 –> 00:15:09.101
Right. Like you wake up in the morning and you’re hungry. degree, it’s not a problem.

00:15:09.881 –> 00:15:15.021
Yeah. Yeah. It’s like, okay, you know, you open a fridge and there’s no food, then you have no money.

00:15:15.121 –> 00:15:18.061
Now you have a problem. Now there’s a problem, right? Yeah. Yeah.

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Yeah. That’s, that’s great that that’s the, the idea behind that part of your training program.

00:15:24.121 –> 00:15:27.021
And I was just having this conversation with a buddy of mine the other day,

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and we were talking about the exact same thing, you know, fundamentally across,

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you know, in the self-defense world, even And they do a fairly good job, not everywhere,

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but they do a fairly good job of putting people in scenarios to work through and think about,

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but they, they don’t, and there’s not a super good way, or we were discussing

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the fact that there’s, it’s not always possible to make someone experience duress

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the way they would if it was on the street, right?

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Even, even going blindly into a scenario room where you don’t know exactly what’s

00:16:00.781 –> 00:16:02.861
going going to happen to you and how you’re going to need to respond,

00:16:03.061 –> 00:16:06.341
you still know you’re about to walk in through the doorway, right?

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And people underestimate how much of an advantage that really is.

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Yeah. I mean, that’s, that’s almost 50% of the mental battle up front.

00:16:13.981 –> 00:16:16.901
Hey, I know I’m about to go in and get my ass beat if nothing else.

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Right. So you just kind of prepare for that.

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So it’s important to try to find training scenarios that do are more realistic

00:16:24.821 –> 00:16:28.901
and at least get you to start thinking about areas that you might need to be

00:16:28.901 –> 00:16:31.161
improving upon so that when when the time comes,

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you can at least think your way through it, if nothing else.

00:16:35.662 –> 00:16:40.182
Yeah. And that is you really and even better than think we go back to effective

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versus efficient is recognized.

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So if you create enough pattern recognition for a certain class of problems,

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you’re going to kind of jump past that kind of old old model.

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People say the Hicks law, the Hicks Hyman law, where you are,

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the more options you have, shorter or the longer your reaction time.

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Yeah, that’s true in a technical way.

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But the human brain has a really strong capability of just getting rid of all

00:17:05.462 –> 00:17:10.502
the extraneous solutions and coming down to hopefully just one recognized solution

00:17:10.502 –> 00:17:13.902
or just a very, two very closely related choices.

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And that quite often can be or sorry, two, two very applicable choices,

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usually that aren’t closely related.

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So in other words, you’ve got the opportunity to fight or flee.

00:17:23.182 –> 00:17:26.582
Right. And if you go fight, well, then the fight option is what it is.

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If you go flee, the flee option is what it is.

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And that makes that decision-making process much, much easier for the prepared

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and trained person. Yep.

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Absolutely. So consistency.

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Consistency is maybe the easiest one to define and to talk about because it

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is kind of self-evident in most ways.

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So consistency takes two forms.

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The most obvious one, I think, is that we need to make sure that whatever it

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is we’re doing is consistent with the other things we do.

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So in other words, if I say, okay, I’m going to solve this problem by gripping

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my, you know, whenever I do X, Y, or Z, I grip my gun a certain way.

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And the way I grip my gun to solve problems X, Y, and Z works 99% of the time,

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then that’s good because I have a consistent grip throughout almost all the

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plausible things I’m going to need to do with that handgun.

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On the other hand, If I have a situation where I say, OK, I’m going to grip

00:18:25.962 –> 00:18:31.782
my gun like this because it gets point zero two percent better when I’m shooting at long distance.

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But then if I’m going to shoot really fast at close distances,

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I’m going to hold my gun in a different way because it’s also point zero two

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percent better in terms of speed, whereas the other one was point zero two percent

00:18:41.902 –> 00:18:43.902
better in terms of precision.

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And then but oh, but if I have to reload, I can’t reload really efficiently

00:18:48.542 –> 00:18:52.542
in this grip. So I’m going to shift my grip a little bit as I’m,

00:18:52.542 –> 00:18:54.102
you know, depleting my ammunition.

00:18:54.322 –> 00:18:56.942
I’m going to shift my grip. So I’m preparing to reload. You know,

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that’s just crazy. And hopefully it sounded crazy.

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And I said, does the idea that you’re not really going to be drawing your gun

00:19:03.622 –> 00:19:07.342
and putting your hand in a different place on it in a defensive situation based

00:19:07.342 –> 00:19:10.562
on whether the target is 10 feet away or a hundred feet away. Right.

00:19:10.902 –> 00:19:15.762
So if we can have one grip that, again, let’s go back to efficiency.

00:19:15.842 –> 00:19:20.322
So does this grip that I’m pretending that is going to be perfect for me really

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solve the vast majority or all the plausible problems I’m going to need to solve

00:19:25.042 –> 00:19:27.922
in terms of my hand connecting to the gun? And then.

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Is it consistent with as much as possible all the other things I might have to do?

00:19:33.781 –> 00:19:35.841
So I know what I’m probably going to have to do is just pull the gun out of

00:19:35.841 –> 00:19:39.181
my holster, drive it out to an extended shooting position, fire three to five

00:19:39.181 –> 00:19:42.861
rounds, and that’s going to solve whatever problem I’m going to need to solve, right?

00:19:42.921 –> 00:19:47.301
That’s like an 80 plus percent likelihood in the defensive shooting world.

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We look at what actually happens to people who carry guns and need to defend

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themselves, whether it’s law enforcement or the average person carrying concealed.

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So if it does, then great. wait, okay, what about the other 15%?

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What if I do have to reload? What if I have a malfunction?

00:20:01.441 –> 00:20:04.101
What if I’m only shooting with one hand instead of two? What if I have to shoot

00:20:04.101 –> 00:20:06.621
someone at 20 yards instead of just 15 feet?

00:20:06.921 –> 00:20:09.001
Well, yeah. Is it still consistent?

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And consistency can’t be a make or break because consistency can’t be a hundred percent.

00:20:14.121 –> 00:20:18.621
So efficiency, if you give me two different options and one solves the problem

00:20:18.621 –> 00:20:22.801
more efficiently than the other, I’m going to choose the more efficient one. It’s pretty objective.

00:20:23.561 –> 00:20:26.981
Consistency has to have an asterisk because we know nothing is absolute.

00:20:27.181 –> 00:20:29.081
Nothing is always going to work.

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So the other side of consistency is, is it consistent with the intended context of use, right?

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So in other words, not just the physical skill, like how am I, how I’m holding the gun?

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Does it allow me to, you know, release the magazine efficiently with my strong

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hand thumb, but also does it work in the context of fighting?

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In other words, can I achieve that grip without looking at my gun, for example?

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Can I have my eyes on a threat, reach down behind my jacket,

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get my hand on my gun in my holster.

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Can I get this grip while the gun’s in the holster, right?

00:21:00.981 –> 00:21:04.201
Now this may be more of a holster issue than it is a grip issue.

00:21:04.361 –> 00:21:08.841
So if I hit the consistency point and I say, no, it doesn’t work with this holster,

00:21:08.901 –> 00:21:14.381
but I go back to efficiency, this is still absolutely a superior choice for the grip.

00:21:14.421 –> 00:21:17.841
Then maybe what I need to do is change the circumstances that I can control

00:21:17.841 –> 00:21:22.881
and use a a different holster and and so consistency is is a pretty pretty fluid

00:21:22.881 –> 00:21:27.901
uh principle that’s incredibly important but but sometimes hard to pin down

00:21:27.901 –> 00:21:30.221
yeah because it all depends could be,

00:21:31.661 –> 00:21:38.761
situational lighting grip capability gear all those things have an impact and

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and it is it is really important to understand that the i don’t know i guess the.

00:21:45.727 –> 00:21:51.667
Crux of consistency that so many people fall back to is wanting it to be absolute.

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And you have to accept the fudge factor of it’s never going to be absolute.

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And because it’s quote unquote never absolute, you’ve got to go to the next step.

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And that next step really is, if we understood everything else without needing

00:22:07.227 –> 00:22:10.787
to define it, integrity would be the end all be right?

00:22:10.907 –> 00:22:14.107
So what kind of, what do we mean by integrity?

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What kind of integrity are we talking about? Is it, do we mean something that’s

00:22:17.267 –> 00:22:18.747
strong, like structural integrity?

00:22:19.027 –> 00:22:22.547
Do we mean morally appropriate? You know, do we ethical?

00:22:22.907 –> 00:22:27.287
What, what is, well, all those things turn in and come into play, right?

00:22:27.647 –> 00:22:33.067
They can, you know, personally for me, I feel like the, the structural integrity

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kind of gets taken care of by the efficiency and effectiveness,

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And then consistency talks about the plausibility and the wider range of efficiency.

00:22:42.547 –> 00:22:47.487
And I think that’s covered. So I really am talking about a much less objective

00:22:47.487 –> 00:22:51.767
and a much more subjective interpretation of integrity. Integrity.

00:22:51.787 –> 00:22:55.147
So let’s go back to the training company in terms of personal defense training.

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When we sit down and say, you know, should we see a new technique?

00:23:00.267 –> 00:23:02.367
Somebody shows up and say, hey, here’s how I reload the gun.

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We’re looking at it and we’re like, wow, that is so much more efficient than what we’ve been doing.

00:23:06.747 –> 00:23:10.667
And then we go to the next phase. Okay, but wait, is it consistent with the

00:23:10.667 –> 00:23:13.967
other things that we teach? And is it consistent with how we’re going to be holding the gun?

00:23:14.107 –> 00:23:17.327
Is it consistent with the kinds of guns we use? Is it consistent with defensive

00:23:17.327 –> 00:23:19.187
shooting as opposed to competition shooting?

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And then we get past that barrier. Okay. Now integrity.

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Can I put my head, just to sum it up, can I put my head down on the pillow at night?

00:23:27.174 –> 00:23:30.334
Or can I look myself in the mirror, you know, when I get in the morning,

00:23:30.374 –> 00:23:34.274
when I get ready to go teach a class and believe that what I’m about to teach

00:23:34.274 –> 00:23:39.294
or what I just taught earlier in the day was the best thing I could be teaching to those students.

00:23:39.354 –> 00:23:41.594
And not a load of bull crap, too. Right.

00:23:41.734 –> 00:23:44.714
Or not just something that makes them feel good. Right.

00:23:44.794 –> 00:23:48.894
Not just something that I know worked for me or worked for some other guy in

00:23:48.894 –> 00:23:54.694
Vietnam 40 years ago or something that I know is going to make them better at

00:23:54.694 –> 00:23:56.974
competition or better at qualification.

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Is it really the best information I could have given them? And I say believe

00:24:00.934 –> 00:24:04.874
instead of no, because I have to be open to the fact that I could be wrong.

00:24:05.094 –> 00:24:08.174
That’s another integrity point, right? I could be completely wrong.

00:24:08.334 –> 00:24:11.854
Because again, think about it, like somebody shows up and our programs have

00:24:11.854 –> 00:24:15.294
evolved over the years quite a bit because somebody shows up and challenges

00:24:15.294 –> 00:24:18.854
it, asks the question in a different way, or somebody has a solution that we

00:24:18.854 –> 00:24:20.074
haven’t seen before to something.

00:24:20.174 –> 00:24:22.754
And it’s like, hey, try this. Got to evolve. Yeah.

00:24:23.254 –> 00:24:27.774
Yeah. So I have to be willing to always say, okay, it was the most efficient thing.

00:24:27.834 –> 00:24:31.434
It was It was like the best 2017 version I could have come up with.

00:24:31.514 –> 00:24:34.634
But now it’s 2019 and this is the better way.

00:24:34.954 –> 00:24:38.434
So I have to be able to look myself in the mirror. I’ve got to put my head down on the pillow.

00:24:38.594 –> 00:24:43.174
I have to be able to explain it to students. Like the integrity covers the why also.

00:24:43.434 –> 00:24:45.774
So it’s easy enough to be objective with the efficiency.

00:24:46.694 –> 00:24:50.014
Consistency is more of logic than I think, you know, objective fact.

00:24:50.134 –> 00:24:53.674
It’s just, well, logically, this is why we’re doing this, because we believe

00:24:53.674 –> 00:24:58.214
these are going going to be the circumstances, or we think this also might need to be important.

00:24:58.314 –> 00:25:02.494
So we say it’s consistent, but then we get to the integrity piece.

00:25:02.634 –> 00:25:06.514
And part of that goes back from a teaching standpoint, goes back to the consistency.

00:25:06.834 –> 00:25:10.714
Is it consistent for the student? Because it may be the best thing for Navy

00:25:10.714 –> 00:25:14.034
SEALs, but if I’m teaching local cops, I need to make sure what I’m teaching

00:25:14.034 –> 00:25:17.434
is the best for them, right? And there could be some nuances to that.

00:25:17.534 –> 00:25:22.114
If it’s somebody with a revolver versus somebody with a semi-automatic pistol, is that important?

00:25:22.374 –> 00:25:24.994
Well, in some cases, is it’s really important to what we teach them and how

00:25:24.994 –> 00:25:27.354
we teach them to do things. So the integrity piece.

00:25:28.065 –> 00:25:31.365
Is i people say so then get away from the teaching what

00:25:31.365 –> 00:25:34.985
is rob’s like personal definition and

00:25:34.985 –> 00:25:37.625
i actually ask this in all my instructor development courses i tell people to

00:25:37.625 –> 00:25:40.605
write down like what is a definition of integrity and you

00:25:40.605 –> 00:25:44.345
see this wide range you know you get 10 people in the room you’ll get you know

00:25:44.345 –> 00:25:49.665
probably six or seven very distinct conceptual or philosophical statements being

00:25:49.665 –> 00:25:55.365
made around the room and some people focus on so what i think sometimes is like

00:25:55.365 –> 00:25:58.865
the the the the, you know, apple for the teacher answer,

00:25:59.085 –> 00:26:02.965
which, which is like staying true to the principles of the program you’re teaching,

00:26:03.145 –> 00:26:05.525
you know, like not, not, that’s what he wants to hear.

00:26:06.005 –> 00:26:09.705
Yeah. From Rob’s doctrine. Like I will, I will teach with integrity, sir.

00:26:09.785 –> 00:26:12.685
You know that. And then you hear other people who do like a broader,

00:26:12.765 –> 00:26:15.905
less kiss assy version of that, where they’ll say, you know.

00:26:16.405 –> 00:26:21.365
Following the guidelines set forth by the endeavor or the grueling body or whatever,

00:26:21.445 –> 00:26:23.405
they’ll come up with it, but these are very external, right?

00:26:23.465 –> 00:26:26.845
Then other people will go more to the ethical moral side.

00:26:27.085 –> 00:26:30.085
And they’ll say, you know, acting within, they’ll actually use those words a

00:26:30.085 –> 00:26:33.745
lot, acting within moral boundaries or, you know, acting in a way that is ethical.

00:26:33.865 –> 00:26:37.385
And that’s always a kind of a throwaway because then you have to define ethics

00:26:37.385 –> 00:26:41.825
or morals, or at least define your morals or your community’s ethics.

00:26:42.005 –> 00:26:43.325
Now you’re going down a rabbit hole.

00:26:43.745 –> 00:26:49.145
Yeah. So it’s, and I guess to some extent, what I do is, is I avoid the whole

00:26:49.145 –> 00:26:53.705
question in some ways because I tell them, you know, all, almost always they’re all valid, right?

00:26:53.725 –> 00:26:58.305
So I’ll say, okay, Does anyone forget about whether you think your answer is

00:26:58.305 –> 00:26:59.725
better if you have a follow-up question?

00:26:59.905 –> 00:27:05.805
But just on the face of it, as wrote, did anybody hear anybody say anything

00:27:05.805 –> 00:27:10.565
that you absolutely 100% can’t figure out how anyone could ever possibly attribute

00:27:10.565 –> 00:27:14.625
the sentence that was uttered to the word integrity? And almost never.

00:27:14.745 –> 00:27:17.825
And no one, you know, people will say, well, can you say that one again or whatever?

00:27:17.945 –> 00:27:19.925
But almost never does anybody really have an objection.

00:27:20.165 –> 00:27:25.365
There’s very valid, diverse ideas about what integrity means.

00:27:25.545 –> 00:27:31.805
But for me, I sum it up with Polonius, you know, his advice to Laertes in Hamlet

00:27:31.805 –> 00:27:35.805
when he says, you know, sums it all up with, to thine own self be true. Sure.

00:27:36.105 –> 00:27:39.365
And what that means to me is it goes back to putting my head down the pillow

00:27:39.365 –> 00:27:40.585
or looking at myself in the mirror.

00:27:40.665 –> 00:27:45.385
I have to believe that what I just did was the right thing to do or the best

00:27:45.385 –> 00:27:48.845
information to put out or my choice here is the best one I could make.

00:27:49.065 –> 00:27:52.785
And that might mean somebody is going to disagree with me. It might mean somebody

00:27:52.785 –> 00:27:56.065
is going to say that they don’t they don’t get it along with not agreeing. green.

00:27:56.225 –> 00:27:59.965
And I hopefully can fall back to some of the things talked about during consistency

00:27:59.965 –> 00:28:02.385
or some of the reasons I believe something’s more efficient.

00:28:02.645 –> 00:28:05.805
And maybe that’s where I’m going to find out I’m wrong. But at the end of the

00:28:05.805 –> 00:28:10.245
day, if I don’t fundamentally believe I’m making the best choice,

00:28:10.425 –> 00:28:16.465
I believe it is a disenfranchisement of your own self to say,

00:28:16.565 –> 00:28:18.125
I’m teaching this because.

00:28:18.665 –> 00:28:21.325
The program says, and I was born

00:28:21.325 –> 00:28:25.045
kind of half jokingly with the instructor candidates. It’s if you ever,

00:28:25.851 –> 00:28:28.551
answer a student’s question with that’s the way we do

00:28:28.551 –> 00:28:31.351
it yeah or that’s the well not even that’s

00:28:31.351 –> 00:28:34.611
the way we do it if you ever attribute that shit to me or something you’re like

00:28:34.611 –> 00:28:37.591
rob says this like no like i told me

00:28:37.591 –> 00:28:42.591
to be completely irrelevant like that’s the worst answer you know like and then

00:28:42.591 –> 00:28:46.131
the follow-up joke is always like especially if we’re in a bar at late at night

00:28:46.131 –> 00:28:50.631
because rob told me to is not the reason to do anything like just you have to

00:28:50.631 –> 00:28:56.771
have a real sense of this is what what I should do, and I believe it.

00:28:57.011 –> 00:29:00.191
And sure, do I put faith in other mentors of mine?

00:29:00.311 –> 00:29:05.071
Do I listen to advice from other people? Do I attribute some of the things I

00:29:05.071 –> 00:29:07.191
teach to having come from other people? Absolutely.

00:29:07.371 –> 00:29:12.931
But I believe I know why, either at least why I’ve chosen to follow that mentor’s

00:29:12.931 –> 00:29:16.571
advice, or at least why I’ve chosen to follow that other instructor’s guidance

00:29:16.571 –> 00:29:21.891
in this technique, or I absolutely know in many cases why they recommended it.

00:29:21.991 –> 00:29:27.871
So it’s one thing to appeal to someone’s sense of admiration or one,

00:29:27.911 –> 00:29:30.811
you know, appeal to someone else who’s an established authority and say,

00:29:30.891 –> 00:29:34.511
well, you know, so-and-so says this and, and let that stand.

00:29:34.671 –> 00:29:37.531
But if somebody looks at me and says, I don’t know who that is,

00:29:37.631 –> 00:29:42.231
well, I can’t hold them accountable for not knowing who my preferred guru is.

00:29:42.331 –> 00:29:44.011
Right. Like maybe you’ve never heard of Shakespeare.

00:29:44.211 –> 00:29:46.951
You have no idea who Polonius and Laertes are. No idea.

00:29:47.651 –> 00:29:50.191
Right. Like I still You’ll have to be able to explain, like,

00:29:50.311 –> 00:29:52.111
to thine own self be true.

00:29:52.231 –> 00:29:58.411
You have got to be able to defend vehemently and potentially relentlessly what

00:29:58.411 –> 00:30:04.651
it is you did based on your own thoughts, based on your own concept, your own conclusions,

00:30:04.891 –> 00:30:08.131
not because somebody else told you or because that’s what’s in the book.

00:30:08.131 –> 00:30:12.131
And that’s, again, going kind of full circle back to the defensive shooting world.

00:30:12.171 –> 00:30:17.351
The guy who is teaching the NRA basic pistol program as a concealed carry course

00:30:17.351 –> 00:30:22.811
because that’s what their state mandates be taught, but says to the entire room

00:30:22.811 –> 00:30:25.831
full of people wanting to hear life and death information,

00:30:26.171 –> 00:30:29.871
hey, you guys have to know I’m only teaching this course because it’s what the

00:30:29.871 –> 00:30:33.611
county says I have to teach. It’s not really a concealed carry course.

00:30:33.991 –> 00:30:37.291
It’s just a basic, you know, marksmanship and firearm safety course.

00:30:37.631 –> 00:30:41.371
I get what that guy is doing and I understand how it works.

00:30:41.431 –> 00:30:45.051
And he has to sort of play that game and he has to hope those people are going

00:30:45.051 –> 00:30:48.911
to hear that the right way and come back and take a real defensive shooting course.

00:30:49.031 –> 00:30:52.071
But at the end of the day, if every defensive shooting instructor,

00:30:52.211 –> 00:30:55.511
and more importantly, if the NRA had stood up and said to that County,

00:30:55.651 –> 00:30:57.171
Hey, that’s not what that course is for.

00:30:57.331 –> 00:31:00.931
That shouldn’t be getting people the permit. You know, the constitution says

00:31:00.931 –> 00:31:03.571
they don’t need a permit, but if you’re going to make them get training,

00:31:03.731 –> 00:31:04.891
that’s not the right course.

00:31:05.191 –> 00:31:09.951
That would be an integrity play and the system would grind to a halt until it was fixed.

00:31:10.071 –> 00:31:13.131
But the fact that enough people are willing to jump through that hoop and just

00:31:13.131 –> 00:31:18.491
teach that, you know, miss a misapplied course, unfortunately gives a lot of

00:31:18.491 –> 00:31:21.051
people that don’t hear that or don’t listen to that advice.

00:31:21.944 –> 00:31:25.044
Because obviously not every instructor says that they’re running around with

00:31:25.044 –> 00:31:27.724
it, with a piece of, you know, a piece of plastic in their wallet that says

00:31:27.724 –> 00:31:29.584
they’re certified to carry a gun.

00:31:29.684 –> 00:31:33.064
They’re carrying a gun in public and they’re probably just incredibly naive

00:31:33.064 –> 00:31:34.344
and overconfident about what

00:31:34.344 –> 00:31:38.384
they’re actually capable of because the training was so inappropriate.

00:31:38.684 –> 00:31:42.384
Yeah. And I think, you know, the integrity piece in my mind,

00:31:42.424 –> 00:31:46.124
you know, I know we work these things backwards because from a training perspective,

00:31:46.164 –> 00:31:48.284
that makes most sense for what you’re doing.

00:31:48.284 –> 00:31:53.364
But it makes most sense for me that integrity is actually the first in line,

00:31:53.464 –> 00:31:59.524
because especially in the defensive world, shooting, using that potentially deadly tool.

00:31:59.824 –> 00:32:03.444
You can’t afford to give people bad information.

00:32:03.444 –> 00:32:07.444
You got to be able to look yourself in the mirror and say, I’ve given them the

00:32:07.444 –> 00:32:11.044
best that I know how to do right now until the next best thing comes along and

00:32:11.044 –> 00:32:14.684
we figure out and explore it because they’re potentially, you know,

00:32:14.684 –> 00:32:17.484
they’re going to training and learning these lessons,

00:32:17.744 –> 00:32:19.964
getting this tool set, so to speak.

00:32:20.044 –> 00:32:25.244
So they know how best to handle a really potentially bad situation.

00:32:25.384 –> 00:32:31.224
So in my mind, that that’s why that piece is so important. It is.

00:32:31.304 –> 00:32:36.324
And to me, that’s why it really is the bottom line foundational last hurdle.

00:32:36.524 –> 00:32:41.564
We can hem and haw all we want over muzzle up, muzzle down, look at your gun,

00:32:41.684 –> 00:32:44.784
don’t look at your gun, all the details of the tech, the efficiency.

00:32:44.784 –> 00:32:47.464
Efficiency but at the end of the day you have to believe in

00:32:47.464 –> 00:32:50.384
what you’re doing and if if you know if the most

00:32:50.384 –> 00:32:53.584
decorated you know warriors of modern society

00:32:53.584 –> 00:32:56.464
showed up at my house you know tomorrow and

00:32:56.464 –> 00:32:59.224
said hey we really believe this this this and this

00:32:59.224 –> 00:33:04.564
and i say why and their answer is because we’re the most decorated modern warriors

00:33:04.564 –> 00:33:09.844
ever so there i’m not convinced like okay neat high five i’ll buy you a drink

00:33:09.844 –> 00:33:14.164
get a selfie for the internet but right now like you got to convince me that

00:33:14.164 –> 00:33:18.804
That muzzle up is a better choice with logic, with objective fact,

00:33:18.944 –> 00:33:22.704
because I already have all these reasons over many, many years to say,

00:33:22.744 –> 00:33:26.824
no, I think pointing the muzzle down is much better, smarter, safer way to train.

00:33:27.124 –> 00:33:30.604
So you can’t just show up and expect me to go the other direction,

00:33:30.724 –> 00:33:33.644
no matter how impressive or successful you’ve been.

00:33:33.704 –> 00:33:38.204
Success breeds complacency. You could have been the best guy in the world using

00:33:38.204 –> 00:33:43.824
a bolt-action rifle, but if you are even mediocre with a semi-auto,

00:33:44.004 –> 00:33:46.064
you’re going to be able to take out more enemies.

00:33:46.284 –> 00:33:49.844
So how about you become a better shooter with the new thing instead of telling

00:33:49.844 –> 00:33:51.744
me I should learn how to shoot a bolt-action gun?

00:33:52.004 –> 00:33:55.744
And that’s kind of what a lot of guys do in this industry. They get really complacent

00:33:55.744 –> 00:33:59.264
based on prior success or at least the illusion of success. Sure.

00:34:00.303 –> 00:34:04.503
So switching gears for a moment, I want to change subjects completely because

00:34:04.503 –> 00:34:08.923
I’ve noticed as of late, you’ve kind of been involved with, and I know you’re

00:34:08.923 –> 00:34:11.623
part of Walk the Talk America.

00:34:11.763 –> 00:34:15.543
And I think this is so important that these sorts of conversations take place

00:34:15.543 –> 00:34:20.803
relative to mental health and the firearms community and the impacts it potentially

00:34:20.803 –> 00:34:22.343
has there or has had there.

00:34:22.403 –> 00:34:24.963
We know they’ve had there, right? And the issues that there are.

00:34:25.283 –> 00:34:28.563
Let’s talk about WTTA for a few moments.

00:34:29.363 –> 00:34:35.743
Yeah, Walk the Talk America is a really important project. And we’re just at a year mark.

00:34:36.043 –> 00:34:39.463
I actually had a conversation with Mike Sedini, the founder of Walk the Talk

00:34:39.463 –> 00:34:42.783
America this morning. We’re going to be meeting tomorrow out in Las Vegas.

00:34:43.003 –> 00:34:48.023
And that’s all obviously in the past now when people are hearing this.

00:34:48.023 –> 00:34:53.343
But kind of just the point being, we’re in very frequent conversation and we’re

00:34:53.343 –> 00:34:54.863
doing a lot of work with that organization.

00:34:55.123 –> 00:35:00.123
And this organization was founded really more than anything else to raise awareness

00:35:00.123 –> 00:35:07.523
about the intersection of the practical intersection of mental health issues and firearms.

00:35:07.523 –> 00:35:12.103
And especially inside of the gun community, raise awareness of the fact that

00:35:12.103 –> 00:35:17.003
there are things you really need to be thinking about in terms of your mental

00:35:17.003 –> 00:35:19.503
health that affect your family,

00:35:19.583 –> 00:35:25.423
that affect people around you, and that are affected by your access to or control over firearms.

00:35:25.423 –> 00:35:30.063
And certainly your family or anyone in your immediate sphere that has access

00:35:30.063 –> 00:35:34.603
or potential access to your firearms, their mental health also needs to be of

00:35:34.603 –> 00:35:38.483
interest or concern to any responsible firearms owner as well.

00:35:38.583 –> 00:35:42.663
And it’s okay to talk about it. In fact, it’s important to talk about it. Sure.

00:35:43.163 –> 00:35:46.603
And I know one of the points I made, because I’ve watched some of your videos

00:35:46.603 –> 00:35:53.483
that you and Mike have put out, I know one of the concerns in the community is that if I talk about.

00:35:54.596 –> 00:35:57.656
You know, I’m not going to call it mental illness, but I’ll talk about things

00:35:57.656 –> 00:36:00.596
that I’m feeling or thinking going through.

00:36:01.056 –> 00:36:06.476
Is this going to harm my ability to exercise my Second Amendment rights?

00:36:06.776 –> 00:36:11.836
You know, I think a roadblock for a lot of that is the fact that on your paperwork,

00:36:11.996 –> 00:36:14.576
it asks about your mental state. Right.

00:36:14.696 –> 00:36:18.976
And so, you know, how do I check that? I’ve never been really formally evaluated.

00:36:19.136 –> 00:36:20.996
I feel kind of funky or depressed.

00:36:21.196 –> 00:36:25.316
Do I check this box? Do I don’t? If I do, can I buy this firearm?

00:36:25.596 –> 00:36:29.176
You know, there’s a lot of challenges around that, but I think it’s important

00:36:29.176 –> 00:36:30.876
to conversations start.

00:36:31.036 –> 00:36:35.696
And then that extends to the safety and keeping those firearms locked up and

00:36:35.696 –> 00:36:40.876
some other, other means of, of making sure that the house that that person is

00:36:40.876 –> 00:36:43.076
in is in as safe as possible.

00:36:43.596 –> 00:36:46.916
Yeah. There, you know, here’s the thing, and I’m going to say this,

00:36:46.916 –> 00:36:50.656
and then this is going to get quoted in or out of context. And regardless,

00:36:50.856 –> 00:36:52.176
people are going to hate it. Yeah.

00:36:52.496 –> 00:36:57.836
There’s this question of, well, what if I talk to someone as a mental health

00:36:57.836 –> 00:37:03.276
professional or I asked for help and then they take away my guns?

00:37:03.636 –> 00:37:07.476
Well, the answer is maybe you needed to have your guns taken away. Sure.

00:37:08.016 –> 00:37:13.936
Okay. So if we’re not open to that, maybe, and it could be 0.01% chance. It could be a 10% chance.

00:37:14.036 –> 00:37:18.636
I don’t know. But if we’re not open to that, maybe actually being the answer,

00:37:18.796 –> 00:37:20.556
then we don’t have anywhere else to go.

00:37:20.656 –> 00:37:24.076
So you want to talk about like the integrity issue, like this is me being really efficient.

00:37:24.276 –> 00:37:27.936
Like I’m going to jump past the, let’s forget about the hemming and hawing over

00:37:27.936 –> 00:37:30.136
what the details of the diagnosis are.

00:37:30.216 –> 00:37:35.376
Let’s just get to the fit for efficiency sake in the context we’re talking about

00:37:35.376 –> 00:37:40.076
the integrity all has to be acknowledging as the pro gun,

00:37:40.196 –> 00:37:42.016
as the pro second amendment advocate,

00:37:42.076 –> 00:37:46.676
as that guy that yes, there are some people who do to mental issues.

00:37:47.710 –> 00:37:50.690
Temporarily or for the rest of their lives, I don’t know.

00:37:50.810 –> 00:37:55.230
But I do know that those people at certain times do exist that should not have

00:37:55.230 –> 00:37:58.190
access to firearms just as much as they shouldn’t have access to firecrackers.

00:37:58.190 –> 00:38:00.310
They shouldn’t be driving a car, you know, whatever.

00:38:00.490 –> 00:38:04.230
Right. So but the firearm falls under that. So when you hear things like,

00:38:04.310 –> 00:38:09.410
well, you know, the veterans are afraid to go ask for help because if they talk

00:38:09.410 –> 00:38:12.870
about PTSD, they might lose their their Second Amendment rights.

00:38:12.910 –> 00:38:16.330
And these guys fought for our Second Amendment rights. How can we take their guns away.

00:38:16.490 –> 00:38:22.090
Well, when I see, you know, 20, 22, 25, 17 of them killing themselves every

00:38:22.090 –> 00:38:26.270
day, the vast majority of them with firearms, I start to think,

00:38:26.330 –> 00:38:28.590
wait a minute, maybe we’re the ones being selfish.

00:38:28.690 –> 00:38:32.890
Maybe we’re the ones being scared and selfish that if we allow the window of

00:38:32.890 –> 00:38:37.090
opportunity for a soldier to get help that might include the reasonable advice

00:38:37.090 –> 00:38:41.470
that he not have access to firearms for a certain period of time, well then wait a minute.

00:38:41.510 –> 00:38:44.730
Now our community is vulnerable because we’re admitting that there’s a potential

00:38:44.730 –> 00:38:46.950
negative outcome from firearms ownership.

00:38:47.150 –> 00:38:50.490
Well, if you’re not admitting that there’s potential negative outcomes from

00:38:50.490 –> 00:38:54.670
having firearms in your world, you’re not responsible enough to have a firearm in your world.

00:38:55.330 –> 00:38:59.590
And that’s a hard thing for people to hear, especially from a pro-gun guy.

00:38:59.690 –> 00:39:03.830
And that I’m also a pro-responsibility guy, right? So go all the way back to

00:39:03.830 –> 00:39:06.030
what you said about that rights and responsibilities shirt.

00:39:06.250 –> 00:39:09.490
If what’s happening now, like with red flag laws and things like that,

00:39:09.490 –> 00:39:14.730
is if we’re not able to demonstrate a maturity and a responsibility on our own

00:39:14.730 –> 00:39:16.970
inside our community, we are going

00:39:16.970 –> 00:39:21.010
to have other people’s versions of responsibility legislated upon us.

00:39:21.090 –> 00:39:23.790
And that’s been really clear for like a hundred years in the U.S.

00:39:23.810 –> 00:39:25.710
It’s right when it comes to guns, right?

00:39:25.850 –> 00:39:31.670
And until we can demonstrate a level of community interest and responsibility

00:39:31.670 –> 00:39:35.630
and proactiveness and just maturity in terms of admitting the problems,

00:39:35.750 –> 00:39:39.030
we’re going to continue to face mental health.

00:39:39.635 –> 00:39:45.475
Initiatives, mental health based initiatives as a weaponized component of gun control.

00:39:45.575 –> 00:39:48.515
And only until, you know, we have to get involved in a conversation.

00:39:48.635 –> 00:39:51.775
That’s what Walk the Talk America is all about, really, is the baseline is getting

00:39:51.775 –> 00:39:55.315
involved, having the conversations with, quote unquote, both sides.

00:39:55.455 –> 00:39:59.295
Right. But they’re not antagonistic sides. They’re just different sides.

00:39:59.555 –> 00:40:02.515
There’s a side of that equation that is the mental health professional.

00:40:02.575 –> 00:40:07.115
And there’s a side of that equation that is the gun owner. And only the rhetoric

00:40:07.115 –> 00:40:13.235
and the divisive politics and just our nature of, you know, polarized in a black

00:40:13.235 –> 00:40:15.015
and white conversation in the U.S.

00:40:15.015 –> 00:40:18.375
Right now is what makes those sides antagonistic. Right.

00:40:18.455 –> 00:40:22.335
You can’t walk into the average mental health professional’s office and expect

00:40:22.335 –> 00:40:24.795
him to be like vehemently anti-gun.

00:40:24.795 –> 00:40:29.755
You also can’t walk into the average gun owner’s house and expect them to,

00:40:30.035 –> 00:40:34.075
you know, swear off any potential help that mental, professional,

00:40:34.175 –> 00:40:37.255
adult, professional, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist could ever give another

00:40:37.255 –> 00:40:39.415
human being. They’re not really anti.

00:40:39.555 –> 00:40:43.395
They just don’t understand the other side. And, and hopefully walk stock America

00:40:43.395 –> 00:40:48.035
is continuing to educate people on both sides of that equation so that they’re

00:40:48.035 –> 00:40:49.495
better able to cooperate.

00:40:49.795 –> 00:40:53.755
Collaborate, and not be turned into pawns for either extreme,

00:40:53.895 –> 00:40:58.015
you know, weaponized against the other where nobody’s winning. Yeah. Yeah.

00:40:58.275 –> 00:41:02.515
And, you know, for me, it makes a lot of sense because I’ve had a lot of conversations

00:41:02.515 –> 00:41:04.835
with a lot of different folks over the years.

00:41:04.855 –> 00:41:08.175
And, you know, obviously on the subject of gun control, right?

00:41:08.275 –> 00:41:12.335
What else can be done? What really can be done except to eliminate them all

00:41:12.335 –> 00:41:15.295
or put these stringent control measures in place?

00:41:15.295 –> 00:41:20.535
And I’ve said for a long time, and this is why this is resonating with me,

00:41:20.595 –> 00:41:24.495
as I’ve said a long time, you don’t do it by extreme gun control.

00:41:24.575 –> 00:41:29.095
You address the mental health issues because that’s really a lot of the times

00:41:29.095 –> 00:41:30.835
where the issues come into play, right?

00:41:30.915 –> 00:41:36.115
Whether we’re talking about active shooter scenarios, issues with PTSD,

00:41:36.535 –> 00:41:39.575
whatever it is, there’s something mentally going on there.

00:41:39.695 –> 00:41:43.475
And that’s where a focus needs to be had. And as best I can tell,

00:41:43.495 –> 00:41:47.855
and I’m sure there’s been some mom and pop organic things done in the past,

00:41:47.975 –> 00:41:50.295
but this is the first large scale,

00:41:50.335 –> 00:41:55.095
so far as I know, initiative to start talking about that very thing.

00:41:55.195 –> 00:42:00.395
So I think it’s important, you know, and I’ve had personal issues with it as well.

00:42:01.655 –> 00:42:06.795
I’ve had to actually take a, I know you guys were recently talking about having

00:42:06.795 –> 00:42:10.235
to, you know, how do you have the conversation when you feel like you need to

00:42:10.235 –> 00:42:15.075
remove a firearm from a household when things may not be as safe as they should

00:42:15.075 –> 00:42:16.455
be to have the firearm there?

00:42:16.775 –> 00:42:20.575
And I was listening to some techniques on, you know, how you might go about

00:42:20.575 –> 00:42:24.735
doing that. And you say, hey, buddy, let me, let me clean your gun for the weekend or whatever.

00:42:24.935 –> 00:42:27.955
And I’m thinking to myself, you know what you do? You just go in and take the

00:42:27.955 –> 00:42:33.235
damn thing and be gone. But I know that has some legal ramifications in some states, too.

00:42:33.375 –> 00:42:36.375
But I’ve had to do that. I’ve had to do it a couple of times.

00:42:36.455 –> 00:42:41.075
And it’s not fun, but hopefully, you know, it’s made things safer,

00:42:41.195 –> 00:42:43.235
at least relative to using that

00:42:43.235 –> 00:42:48.595
particular tool and eliminating that from being an option. Yeah, it is.

00:42:48.715 –> 00:42:52.715
It’s the impulsiveness. When you talk to people inside of the mental health

00:42:52.715 –> 00:42:57.935
community, impulsiveness and sort of access to the opportunistic,

00:42:57.935 –> 00:43:03.035
you know, moment of weakness, having that tool at hand is a big deal.

00:43:03.035 –> 00:43:06.295
So even inside of the firearms community, like if you’re listening to this now

00:43:06.295 –> 00:43:11.295
and you, you familiar with the protect what you love movement and that’s,

00:43:11.295 –> 00:43:15.295
so it’s protect what you love is actually the first t-shirt in the line of t-shirts

00:43:15.295 –> 00:43:18.015
that I did with that, that included the rights and responsibilities.

00:43:18.155 –> 00:43:21.175
One was protect what you love and protect what you love idea.

00:43:21.255 –> 00:43:23.855
I’ve written about it. There’s some videos out there. People can Google it,

00:43:23.875 –> 00:43:26.755
check it out. Maybe if you have notes, you can put some links in there to something

00:43:26.755 –> 00:43:28.455
I’ve written about it or something. And it’s.

00:43:28.950 –> 00:43:32.870
All about finding that thing that motivates you. Like, why are you going to get up and practice?

00:43:33.030 –> 00:43:35.390
Why are you going to wear your gun today? Why are you going to train?

00:43:35.510 –> 00:43:37.090
Why are you going to get the concealed carry permit?

00:43:37.190 –> 00:43:40.410
Like, what is it that motivates you? And I don’t care if it’s your job,

00:43:40.550 –> 00:43:43.010
your, you, you feel like you’re making earth better. You’re it’s you,

00:43:43.050 –> 00:43:45.170
you want to see your, your daughter get married.

00:43:45.310 –> 00:43:48.250
Like you want to finish college, like whatever. I don’t care what your thing is.

00:43:48.310 –> 00:43:51.930
Find the thing that motivates you to want to train and want to be able to protect

00:43:51.930 –> 00:43:54.470
yourself in that worst case scenario, because it is work. Right.

00:43:54.650 –> 00:43:57.310
So I just told people like, get a post-it note, right. Right.

00:43:57.330 –> 00:44:02.630
Protect what you love or write hashtag, you know, P Y W L, you know,

00:44:02.650 –> 00:44:04.250
whatever your your thing is.

00:44:04.530 –> 00:44:09.550
And P W Y L. I was saying it wrong. I was saying it. Put that on the safe.

00:44:09.930 –> 00:44:13.750
Like put that on your your your box that you keep the gun in the closet.

00:44:13.850 –> 00:44:16.450
Put that on your quick access safe. Put it put it somewhere.

00:44:16.670 –> 00:44:21.510
Have a little decorative, you know, rock with it engraved on it and inscribed on it or whatever.

00:44:21.510 –> 00:44:24.950
Ever and put it on top of your tactical wall shelf where you hide your AR just

00:44:24.950 –> 00:44:28.310
so that maybe in that moment when you don’t even know what the moment’s about,

00:44:28.430 –> 00:44:32.990
but three years from now you have like everything is crushing down and falling apart.

00:44:33.310 –> 00:44:37.290
And then you, you know, I don’t know, something else you made a decision you

00:44:37.290 –> 00:44:38.970
probably wouldn’t have made if everything had been fine.

00:44:39.050 –> 00:44:41.630
And then you got caught doing something you didn’t want to get caught doing.

00:44:41.710 –> 00:44:43.710
And then it’s just, oh, it’s bad. It’s bad. It’s bad.

00:44:43.830 –> 00:44:46.270
And your friends are telling you, you fucked up and this and that,

00:44:46.290 –> 00:44:47.290
all these things are falling apart.

00:44:47.610 –> 00:44:50.770
You, you sit, you don’t know how to cope. You reach, You go,

00:44:50.830 –> 00:44:54.690
you pick up the box and there’s that post-it note that’s like, protect what you love.

00:44:54.790 –> 00:44:58.250
Okay, wait a minute. Yeah, my daughter, I still want to do that. Or you know what?

00:44:58.290 –> 00:45:00.710
I could get my job back or, you know, I could do this other,

00:45:00.770 –> 00:45:04.330
whatever the thing is, like maybe that’s the thing that causes you a half second

00:45:04.330 –> 00:45:08.190
of hesitation because all of the professionals on the mental health side,

00:45:08.310 –> 00:45:14.410
which I certainly am not, are suggesting to us and telling us that all the data is very clear.

00:45:14.410 –> 00:45:18.430
Like, if you can put one more step, one more hurdle, one more,

00:45:18.430 –> 00:45:22.710
you know, moment of contemplation between a person’s impulse.

00:45:22.910 –> 00:45:27.270
Yeah, speed bump between their moment of impulse and the moment of action.

00:45:28.131 –> 00:45:31.991
You could save lives pretty easily if you, if you can just put one or two more steps in there.

00:45:32.071 –> 00:45:36.571
So whether it’s keeping your guns unloaded or keeping your guns locked up or

00:45:36.571 –> 00:45:39.631
putting the post-it note on top of the thing that’s holding the gun when it’s

00:45:39.631 –> 00:45:42.671
locked up, all of those things can really make a difference.

00:45:42.811 –> 00:45:47.991
So I think that’s important is this concept before stage four from mental health America,

00:45:48.151 –> 00:45:52.471
who’s one of our collaborators and their idea of before stage four is that like

00:45:52.471 –> 00:45:55.751
with cancer, if you, if you get diagnosed at stage four, it’s,

00:45:55.751 –> 00:45:58.351
it’s really hard to, you know, fight through that. Right.

00:45:58.431 –> 00:46:00.911
But if you get screening and things like that, you find out early,

00:46:01.011 –> 00:46:04.811
you know, stage one, stage two, it’s much easier for modern medicine to deal

00:46:04.811 –> 00:46:06.311
with the cancer in your body.

00:46:06.411 –> 00:46:09.131
And if we can do the same thing with mental illness, if we can get in there

00:46:09.131 –> 00:46:13.571
and get people to be mentally healthier and more resilient way before they have

00:46:13.571 –> 00:46:16.771
an acute problem, then there’s just, they’re better people.

00:46:16.851 –> 00:46:19.911
And I’ve said, you know, what I’ve taken to say is like, we got to treat mental

00:46:19.911 –> 00:46:21.411
health. Like we do physical health, right?

00:46:21.631 –> 00:46:25.531
There’s no, there’s a stigma around mental health. Like it’s all doomsday,

00:46:25.531 –> 00:46:26.851
worst case scenario stuff.

00:46:27.091 –> 00:46:29.971
Like you don’t even want to go in that room except they, you know,

00:46:29.971 –> 00:46:33.131
if you, there’s a difference between spraining your arm and,

00:46:33.131 –> 00:46:36.851
and having your arm, you know, chewed off by a, you know, wood chipper,

00:46:36.931 –> 00:46:40.511
you know, there are different levels of physical ailment to the body,

00:46:40.551 –> 00:46:43.471
just like there are different levels of mental ailment to the body.

00:46:43.511 –> 00:46:46.831
And there’s different treatment and there’s different potential outcomes and

00:46:46.831 –> 00:46:48.811
there’s different longevity to the impairment.

00:46:48.971 –> 00:46:52.611
So there’s all kinds of reasons why people should be asking for this help and

00:46:52.611 –> 00:46:56.131
seeking it out proactively, just like, you know, hopefully you’re eating well

00:46:56.131 –> 00:47:00.431
and, you know, drinking only moderately and maybe not smoking cigarettes anymore

00:47:00.431 –> 00:47:03.771
and getting a little exercise, doing all those things you do for your physical health.

00:47:04.752 –> 00:47:10.532
Well, you know, my personal philosophy is, Rob, is I believe everyone is a little bit crazy.

00:47:10.892 –> 00:47:14.972
So it’s probably not a bad idea that we start thinking in terms of considering

00:47:14.972 –> 00:47:18.212
that along with our physical health or whatever else we’re doing, right?

00:47:18.492 –> 00:47:24.452
And to your point, not every mental issue means that it’s at the extreme and

00:47:24.452 –> 00:47:28.352
you need to have your firearms taken away from you for a period of time or whatever.

00:47:28.352 –> 00:47:31.892
It just is to bring more visibility to the subject matter, because,

00:47:31.952 –> 00:47:36.872
again, I think instead of talking constantly in terms of extreme gun control,

00:47:37.052 –> 00:47:43.132
that we do start addressing this mental issue that this mental topic that is

00:47:43.132 –> 00:47:47.532
mental health issue that’s been avoided or just not, you know,

00:47:47.532 –> 00:47:48.992
just hasn’t been talked about at all.

00:47:49.492 –> 00:47:53.392
Right. Yeah, for sure. And I think that’s the issue. The bottom line is just

00:47:53.392 –> 00:47:56.312
talk about it, raise awareness, get people to discuss these things,

00:47:56.432 –> 00:48:02.192
make sure that they are part of the, just like, you know, do you have kids in the house?

00:48:02.292 –> 00:48:04.512
How do you lock your guns up? You know, do you have a permit?

00:48:04.652 –> 00:48:07.492
Do you, do you carry when you’re drinking? I mean, all these questions that

00:48:07.492 –> 00:48:10.852
every responsible gun owner, especially those interested in defensive ownership

00:48:10.852 –> 00:48:14.392
and potential use of guns, they need to be asking themselves this question.

00:48:14.452 –> 00:48:16.612
Well, the mental health Both ones are the same. And like I said,

00:48:16.652 –> 00:48:19.032
a lot of this stuff is hard and scary to talk about.

00:48:19.132 –> 00:48:21.612
But I’ll give you another example. Inside of the firearms community,

00:48:21.812 –> 00:48:25.752
a lot of people like to point out that so many of the people who are involved

00:48:25.752 –> 00:48:30.192
in mass killings or, you know, quote unquote, active shooting events are on

00:48:30.192 –> 00:48:32.832
SSRIs or have been on SSRIs somewhere.

00:48:33.052 –> 00:48:38.732
And it’s sort of become like, you know, this touchstone of self-evident truth

00:48:38.732 –> 00:48:40.752
that somehow makes it not the gun’s fault.

00:48:40.852 –> 00:48:44.412
Right. Now, obviously, I don’t think mass killings are the gun’s fault,

00:48:44.492 –> 00:48:46.592
but the idea that you’re going to point at a drug.

00:48:47.459 –> 00:48:51.479
Tens of millions of Americans are on and say, well, these three people this

00:48:51.479 –> 00:48:56.459
year killed 12 people with rifles because they were on those drugs is sort of

00:48:56.459 –> 00:48:57.899
nonsensical. That’s a jump. Yeah.

00:48:58.019 –> 00:49:00.539
But at the same time, what I would say to these people is, okay,

00:49:00.559 –> 00:49:05.019
wait a minute, you’re blaming SSRIs. Do you then advocate that anyone,

00:49:05.319 –> 00:49:09.539
forget about anyone on SSRIs? Because again, I think that’s kind of nonsensical.

00:49:09.599 –> 00:49:14.339
We do know that the SSRI type drugs, these drugs to treat depression primarily,

00:49:14.599 –> 00:49:18.819
they will change your behavior, change your irritability.

00:49:19.039 –> 00:49:22.379
It even, you know, one of the side effects quite often is potential suicidal

00:49:22.379 –> 00:49:25.499
thoughts when you’re coming on or going off of them.

00:49:25.559 –> 00:49:28.779
And these, some of these drugs can take like a month for your body and your

00:49:28.779 –> 00:49:32.599
brain to adjust to being in your system and another month coming off of them.

00:49:32.679 –> 00:49:37.059
So if you’re willing to point the finger at SSRIs, are you also willing to say

00:49:37.059 –> 00:49:39.619
out loud in america that no one

00:49:39.619 –> 00:49:44.399
who goes on to or off of an ssri should carry a gun in the public space.

00:49:44.799 –> 00:49:47.539
During the first month and during that month first month

00:49:47.539 –> 00:49:50.299
after they come off it and of course everybody that’s in

00:49:50.299 –> 00:49:54.579
that camp of blame ssri’s you know quote unquote everybody they’re all going

00:49:54.579 –> 00:49:57.439
to look at me like i’m crazy and say well no i would never of course not okay

00:49:57.439 –> 00:50:02.079
well but that’s then what are you saying yeah what what and what they’re saying

00:50:02.079 –> 00:50:04.279
is they don’t have any idea what they’re saying they don’t understand the drug

00:50:04.279 –> 00:50:08.059
they don’t understand what they’re saying and the correlation versus causation issues.

00:50:08.379 –> 00:50:11.239
So go learn about it. Go talk to a mental health professional.

00:50:11.359 –> 00:50:15.499
Go figure out, by the way, ask your friends and family members how many of them

00:50:15.499 –> 00:50:18.199
have been on SSRIs at any point in their lives.

00:50:18.339 –> 00:50:22.339
And now all of a sudden, you can’t just blame SSRIs. You can’t just blame mental

00:50:22.339 –> 00:50:24.279
health. Are there mental health issues there?

00:50:24.419 –> 00:50:28.179
Almost certainly in every case, but you can’t just point a finger and say,

00:50:28.299 –> 00:50:33.159
leave us alone, blame mental health, especially if you’re working against people

00:50:33.159 –> 00:50:34.979
seeking mental health assistance.

00:50:35.599 –> 00:50:37.439
And there’s a lot of that inside of the gun industry right now.

00:50:37.499 –> 00:50:39.919
So it’s a real cognitive dissonance kind of thing. Yeah.

00:50:41.149 –> 00:50:45.709
So switching gears here again, and I know we’re, we’re, we’re growing short

00:50:45.709 –> 00:50:46.969
on time because I know you’re busy.

00:50:47.029 –> 00:50:50.469
And again, I appreciate you doing this and maybe this puts you on the spot a

00:50:50.469 –> 00:50:55.169
little bit, but I’ve been dying to ask you this, you know, it doesn’t matter.

00:50:55.209 –> 00:51:00.249
And this is my experience, but I assume others probably have something similar.

00:51:00.389 –> 00:51:06.129
It doesn’t matter where you look, social media in the news, wherever us pro gunners are.

00:51:06.129 –> 00:51:14.289
It seems to me that the largest argument that we continually to make on an ongoing

00:51:14.289 –> 00:51:23.189
daily basis is our biggest argument towards gun control and the anti-gunners, so to speak,

00:51:23.369 –> 00:51:26.549
is the Second Amendment. All you hear about a second amendment.

00:51:26.609 –> 00:51:31.629
It’s our rights. It’s our rights as our rights In your mind and in your experience.

00:51:31.929 –> 00:51:36.429
Do you think there’s another tactic that we could please take?

00:51:38.189 –> 00:51:41.449
Whether we’re and and and I guess that’s what I’m getting that whether or not

00:51:41.449 –> 00:51:45.809
we’re Yelling back at the government and the politicians or we’re trying to

00:51:45.809 –> 00:51:50.469
have a conversation with one another or with the other side Is there a way that

00:51:50.469 –> 00:51:54.789
we can move away from to a being the only damn tactic we have?

00:51:55.289 –> 00:52:01.489
Well Yes, I think it’s incredibly important and I hope that you know you use

00:52:01.489 –> 00:52:06.409
air quotes when you said only yes because it is far too often the,

00:52:08.990 –> 00:52:15.950
the default, right? It’s, it’s sort of the, the bumper sticker version of discussing gun rights.

00:52:15.990 –> 00:52:18.750
And it’s not enough, you know, no bumper sticker is really enough.

00:52:18.850 –> 00:52:23.770
Right. And so if you go back, so again, we’ll go back to, to,

00:52:23.830 –> 00:52:26.950
you know, using the Google, I wrote an article in 2017.

00:52:27.470 –> 00:52:34.990
Summer, fall, something like that, 2017 on this issue of shall not be infringed, Right.

00:52:35.070 –> 00:52:39.490
Like if all you have is shall not be infringed, then you don’t have anything.

00:52:39.630 –> 00:52:44.370
Right. Because you don’t you don’t you cannot take this incredibly complex situation

00:52:44.370 –> 00:52:50.630
and reduce it to shall not be infringed, especially not in 2017 or 2019.

00:52:50.630 –> 00:52:57.890
In 2019 if you sit here because we’re so infringed in any kind of explicit way,

00:52:58.150 –> 00:53:01.710
any explicit interpretation of that, that you’re saying shall not be infringed

00:53:01.710 –> 00:53:02.930
is now meaningless, right?

00:53:03.050 –> 00:53:06.750
You, you seem like a disconnected guy that just came down off a mountain somewhere

00:53:06.750 –> 00:53:10.850
after 200 years. And you’re like, well, it says here, you know, well, okay, great.

00:53:11.010 –> 00:53:14.490
But it also says you can own other human beings and sell them like property,

00:53:14.510 –> 00:53:16.330
you know, into these 200 years ago.

00:53:16.410 –> 00:53:19.770
So not really help and not not relevant so what’s happened

00:53:19.770 –> 00:53:22.670
well you know i always say to the to the other side like

00:53:22.670 –> 00:53:25.590
well maybe it’s just time when they say oh maybe maybe the second amendment’s out

00:53:25.590 –> 00:53:28.510
of date okay change it go ahead yeah i’ll

00:53:28.510 –> 00:53:32.370
wait you go change it there’s a process it’s been done before it could be done

00:53:32.370 –> 00:53:36.270
again and guess what in some ways this conversation would be a lot easier for

00:53:36.270 –> 00:53:40.630
both sides to have if one side wasn’t pretending it didn’t exist the second

00:53:40.630 –> 00:53:43.690
amendment the other side was pretending all we need to say is well it exists

00:53:43.690 –> 00:53:46.790
yeah because they’re both wrong You know, I mean, it does exist.

00:53:46.890 –> 00:53:51.290
And yet we are infringed. So you get into some of the crazy legal.

00:53:51.610 –> 00:53:57.830
Philosophical, political arguments of, well, why did why in that one place does

00:53:57.830 –> 00:54:02.390
it say shall not be infringed as opposed to, you know, the First Amendment doesn’t say it.

00:54:02.390 –> 00:54:05.250
The Fourth Amendment doesn’t say it. Right. Just says you have this right.

00:54:05.390 –> 00:54:09.030
But now it says the right shall not be infringed. Well, that’s it’s just an

00:54:09.030 –> 00:54:10.170
awkwardly written argument.

00:54:10.947 –> 00:54:14.567
Piece of a great document. It’s awfully convenient.

00:54:15.547 –> 00:54:21.547
It is. It’s an important piece of that writing.

00:54:21.627 –> 00:54:23.947
But again, it’s also an awkward piece of that writing.

00:54:24.087 –> 00:54:28.027
And that’s why there’s such contention over it. And that’s why books have been

00:54:28.027 –> 00:54:29.607
written about it and things like that. Right.

00:54:29.787 –> 00:54:33.707
But the problem is, shall not be infringed. It isn’t an argument. It isn’t a discussion.

00:54:34.487 –> 00:54:39.127
It’s not remotely compelling to anyone who’s already taken an anti-gun stance.

00:54:39.387 –> 00:54:44.167
There’s no way to you’re going to change someone’s mind. Like there’s no one in 2019.

00:54:44.327 –> 00:54:47.387
It’s saying, I think we should have mandatory licensing for guns.

00:54:47.467 –> 00:54:50.307
And you’re like, Hey, did you not, you know, there’s a second amendment that

00:54:50.307 –> 00:54:53.267
says our right to keep and bear shall not be infringed.

00:54:53.287 –> 00:54:56.547
And they’re going to be like, Oh, I did not know that. Thank you.

00:54:56.547 –> 00:55:00.187
I retract my earlier suggestion.

00:55:00.427 –> 00:55:03.167
You know, that is not going to have the person who’s making the argument about,

00:55:03.187 –> 00:55:06.747
well, guns, you need a license to drive a car. Why don’t you need a license to have a gun?

00:55:06.927 –> 00:55:10.087
They, they are not, they don’t care about the Second Amendment.

00:55:10.187 –> 00:55:14.107
And you can go to a civics class kind of like you should care about the Second

00:55:14.107 –> 00:55:18.047
Amendment level, except it’s not compelling to a modern human being.

00:55:18.167 –> 00:55:20.127
So it’s just not going to work.

00:55:20.327 –> 00:55:27.407
So we really need to know that while we, the Second Amendment advocates and

00:55:27.407 –> 00:55:28.867
gun right advocates, should not.

00:55:29.941 –> 00:55:36.901
Ever give any quarter on the idea that we’re willing to suspend the second amendment right,

00:55:37.401 –> 00:55:41.081
absolutely we also have to understand it we will never end or win a conversation

00:55:41.081 –> 00:55:46.121
with the second amendment but you know what it’s bottom line but it’s almost

00:55:46.121 –> 00:55:50.161
so prolific within the gun community i think it’s just gotten to the point where

00:55:50.161 –> 00:55:53.381
we’re rah-rah-ing ourselves right it’s like we’re trying to get ourselves fired

00:55:53.381 –> 00:55:56.181
up because no one else is looking at and going and second amendment.

00:55:56.281 –> 00:55:59.961
Oh, all right. Well, it’s cool. If you guys have guns, I didn’t know that to

00:55:59.961 –> 00:56:04.221
your point, right? It’s like, we’re, we’re talking to ourselves and no one else is listening.

00:56:04.341 –> 00:56:09.621
So, you know, what, what is the conversation we need to be having with the folks

00:56:09.621 –> 00:56:13.161
that maybe are interested in being swayed one way or the other,

00:56:13.201 –> 00:56:15.461
at least open-minded enough to have the conversation.

00:56:16.641 –> 00:56:21.161
Yeah, it’s there. And we have to be open-minded enough to have the conversation

00:56:21.161 –> 00:56:25.781
before we can begin to engage the other people that might be as well. And they are there.

00:56:26.061 –> 00:56:29.961
And that’s why I asked, I hope you use their quotes when you said the only argument

00:56:29.961 –> 00:56:34.681
we have, because there are a lot of us who are making other arguments and having

00:56:34.681 –> 00:56:39.061
other discussions with people who lean pro gun control.

00:56:39.441 –> 00:56:44.981
And I always say there’s this gun responsibility is the coin.

00:56:45.061 –> 00:56:49.081
And on one side, you’ve got gun rights and the other side, you’ve got gun control.

00:56:49.461 –> 00:56:54.181
But if everybody really just agrees on the responsible execution of our gun

00:56:54.181 –> 00:56:58.101
rights, I don’t think those sides would really be that far off.

00:56:58.261 –> 00:57:05.481
It’s the people that are in it for the rhetoric or locked into an extreme mode of combativeness.

00:57:06.001 –> 00:57:08.281
They’re not going to talk to each other anyway. And as you said,

00:57:08.361 –> 00:57:10.921
they’re really just in an echo chamber somewhere to begin with.

00:57:11.838 –> 00:57:15.938
Well, Rob, this has been great. I really appreciate your time and your effort.

00:57:16.038 –> 00:57:20.678
I think when I reached out to you initially to do this with me,

00:57:20.738 –> 00:57:22.438
I said, I was honest with you and straightforward.

00:57:22.718 –> 00:57:26.558
I said, I’m pretty sure it’s going to benefit us more than you,

00:57:26.678 –> 00:57:30.398
but I think it’s still another great opportunity to get some good information out there.

00:57:30.518 –> 00:57:33.278
And I think we’ve gotten a little bit out there today for folks,

00:57:33.378 –> 00:57:37.758
hopefully to take away a nugget or two. If you want to know more about ICE training

00:57:37.758 –> 00:57:42.338
with Rob, you can go to icetraining.us.

00:57:43.178 –> 00:57:47.098
And if you’re interested in learning more about Walk the Talk America,

00:57:47.338 –> 00:57:50.078
you can go to walkthetalkamerica.org.

00:57:50.138 –> 00:57:52.858
And I think everybody should take an opportunity to go out there and see what

00:57:52.858 –> 00:57:56.218
that organization is starting to try to do for us. I think it’s great.

00:57:56.938 –> 00:57:59.678
So, yeah, I appreciate you being on here, Rob.

00:58:00.498 –> 00:58:03.478
I appreciate you having me on. It’s a great opportunity. You know,

00:58:03.478 –> 00:58:07.118
not only the benefit that hopefully some people are going to get from hearing

00:58:07.118 –> 00:58:08.678
this, but I just I enjoyed the conversation.

00:58:08.898 –> 00:58:12.538
And, you know, you asked some great questions and made some great points that

00:58:12.538 –> 00:58:16.838
helped me further evaluate, you know, my own position on some of these things

00:58:16.838 –> 00:58:19.918
and my own thoughts about, you know, even the principles of my own company.

00:58:20.018 –> 00:58:23.818
Every time someone challenges or asks questions about it or makes an observation

00:58:23.818 –> 00:58:28.058
about it, it helps me understand them more and maybe articulate them better

00:58:28.058 –> 00:58:30.018
to other people. So thank you for that opportunity.

00:58:30.338 –> 00:58:33.018
Absolutely. And that’s it. Thanks for listening.

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